Misery“Oh, hey, I’m so glad to see you, I really wanted to talk about our rela­tion­ship!  And I also think you’d make great friends with this other girl I know…”

“Um, like, I know I go to your Star­bucks a lot and see you behind the check­out counter a few times a week, but… what freak­ing rela­tion­ship are you talk­ing about?”

If that dia­logue sounds silly, it’s the kind of thing that hap­pens every day through Social Media and online tools like Twit­ter, Face­Book, Blogs, e-mail, etc.  Com­pa­nies some­how assume that because you’ve vis­ited their site or bought some­thing from them, that it is now appro­pri­ate to act as your buddy — or worse, that they can try to lever­age your friends/networks for their own, self­ish purposes.

Offline, this behav­ior would be creepy and bor­der­line stalker-ish.  Bring­ing it online doesn’t make it any­more well received, accord­ing to a new e-Marketer Dig­i­tal Intel­li­gence study:

US con­sumers are most inter­ested in brands that keep them up to date and improve their knowl­edge. And they do not want brands to act like their friends.”

So what DO con­sumers want from com­pa­nies using Social Media & Online tools?  Here are the high­lights from the study :

Help­ing con­sumers keep up to date on top­ics that were impor­tant to them was also key, fol­lowed by being enter­tain­ing, becom­ing part of a daily rou­tine, and inform­ing con­sumers about the prod­uct and the com­pany. Con­sumers were rel­a­tively unin­ter­ested in brands that tried to act like their friends.”

Sounds about right to me.

* Hat tip to Zen Pun­dit and Critt Jarvis over at Strate­gis

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Comments

  1. Tom Wanek on 11.04.2009

    Funny, I didn’t see your blog post until after our social media discussion.

    Couldn’t agree more. I don’t want a brand to be my friend. I want news and updates on prod­ucts and ser­vices that inter­est me.

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