Check out my blog” I tweeted, and almost nobody did — I got exactly what I deserved

But I learned my lesson.

So a day or two later, I tweeted the fol­low­ing: “Why telling the truth rarely works,” along with a link to my post, Does Your Copy Tell or Com­pel. That’s when a fair fol­low­ing of peo­ple clicked through to my blog.

  • My first tweet was all about me, no mat­ter how humbly or sim­ply I worded it, so few read­ers responded.
  • The follow-up tweet promised an inter­est­ing read on a topic my audi­ence cared about — it was all about them and they responded accordingly.
  • In both cases I got exactly what I deserved

Here’s how this works out­side of Twit­ter headlines

Let’s say you own a local restau­rant.  If you have a Face­Book page, what do you think should be on it?

Of course, you’ll likely have some pic­tures of the restau­rant up, and maybe even the menu, but what should the major­ity of your sta­tus updates focus on?

If you’re aim­ing to deserve social media suc­cess, here’s what I’d recommend:

  1. Announce­ment of FB-friend only spe­cials. Doesn’t have to be a sav­ings or sale, it could sim­ply be an off-menu spe­cial that only your FB friends know about.
  2. Pic­tures of your guests (posted with their per­mis­sion). Take pho­tos of your patrons and din­ers and ask them either for their FB names so you can tag them in the pho­tos, or encour­age them to Friend you and tag the pho­tos themselves.
  3. A few behind-the-scenes pics and com­ments to let peo­ple know about the extra effort you go through to make sure the food is out­stand­ing.  Let them see some of your pas­sion with­out mak­ing too big a deal about it.

Notice that 2 out of 3 rec­om­mended updates are focused on your cus­tomers — it’s all about them — and that even the last item is indi­rectly about the cus­tomer, as the cus­tomers are the focus and ben­e­fi­cia­ries of all the hard work and pas­sion the sug­gested updates would be doc­u­ment­ing. For­mer Grok read­ers will rec­og­nize this as a case of customer-centric ver­sus we-we copy.

And the great thing about this near uni­ver­sal prin­ci­ple?  You can test it for your­self with almost no risk or invest­ment. Social Media pro­vides near-instant feed­back and your test can be as close as your next tweet, sta­tus update, or blog post.

Give it a shot and see if these prin­ci­ples don’t work for you.  I already know they’ve worked for me and for my wife’s pho­tog­ra­phy business.